I have a dilemma.....

[warthog]

my oldest sister came to Michigan to visit ,staying with my other sister-As in the past;my 3 sisters are planning get togethers-Without me,their younger brother....My other sister slipped and told me this yesterday-she works 3rd shift,as do I-They are picking her up sometime Friday,going to the cemetary where our parents are buried;and to lunch...If I had been invited;me and my 1 sister could have ridden together;and met my other 2 sisters at the cemetary-Would have saved my sister a lot of driving miles-BUT,I WASNT INVITED....Im afraid if I bring it up;a huge family brouhaha will erupt,as has happened in the past...WHAT DO I DO??Keep quiet,keep it to myself??I think I will just keep it quiet-No sense starting a needless argument-but it really bothers me-Im part of this family,too

 

[steve in so la]

Maybe it's a girl thing - they sometimes like to get together. Whatever, don't let it rock your world, there could be many answers - go on with life. Life's too short to sweat the small stuff steve in so az

 

[mohayes1046]

There is no complete or "correct" response to the situation where it has happened in the past as it did this time. Steve's right, hang in there and don't let it cause bitterness on your part (very hard not to be) ask the Lord to give you peace and understanding of the situation, and to guide you in all things with your family. Walk with your head high and without arrogance, love your sisters even though you may not feel like it and be the best brother you can be.
They are not your enemies even though you may feel like it, they are your family Love them, bless them, do good to them and pray for them. Pray for their salvation if they are not Christians. Pray for their understanding and fellowship.

May God bless you and strengthen you that you may forgive them in these trying times. Christ forgave those who crucified him while He was on the cross.

Luke 23:34
Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.

Matthew 5
43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you,
and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

 

[seeker41]

a "girls day out" dont worry about it.

 

[Anonymous]

Nothing to add to the other answers, so heed both of them and continue living life to the good for our Lord, forgiving and continuing to love your sisters and all the family! Life is too short to fret over something that may just be among sisters and their good time and enjoyment! God Bless and may you continue on MD'ing and finding the goodies! Give Boomer a hug for me!


Betty

 

[Mike from MI "Iron Brigade"]

sometimes girls need that sort of thing with no guys around. on the other hand I understand your feeling left out. Pray about it, and let God guide you.

 

[whisperer]

The answer is in Genesis. Jacob's son Joseph forgave his brothers (after a little tomfoolery... ) and they sold HIM into slavery. "Holding a grudge hurts us more than others". Maybe the reason you were not invited is a simple one and had nothing to do with an intent to hurt you. Maybe one of the girls has a serious problem and they think this would be a good opportunity to talk it all out among themselves (girl stuff) as well as visiting the folks memorial.

I would say nothing about it and invite them all over for a BBQ or nice dinner. Extend your hand to them so they know you want to connect with them.

 

[Greg from Mi.]

maybe its just a girls outing type of thing.
Greg