Thats how I roll, up super early (4am) check the Forums, and get in a couple hrs. hunting and home and at work before the wife even knows I'm gone!..
You should try to develop a relationship with that guy you met...40+ gold rings per yr puts him in the top .005 bracket as far as detectorists go...so he's either really really good, or a bullcrapper of the highest magnitude. Nothing wrong with that, in fact, under different circumstances, you may have met ME!

Either way, you can learn something from a guy like that!

some super successful gold hunters are friendly and readily share info, Like Scubadee and others here on the Forum, so you may have met such a person who would mentor you to the secrets of hunting mega gold...
Seems like he has the right gear to not be a bullcrapper, but any old guy with a CC can buy that gear and look the part...40+ is a red flag regarding that, maybe once in a lifetime super year, if a guy is unemployed, dedicated, spry, financially independent, right place, single, etc..but 40+ consistently is another thing...especially without tanks!
You'd be in the top 3% if you can find 10 gold items per year, just once in your life, and some guys that post here do, year after year, and never get in the water, which is amazing, lots of successful traits to pattern your hunting style after if a fellow reads as many posts as possible, yes water and beach hunting is where the majority of gold is found, so now you are all set up for success......work your local beaches/water as much as you can and figure them out, theres gold there someplace! You have the right gear, now its just getting that coil over it and scooping it up! Good Luck!

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