...Her and her husband,and their sons are wrapped up in their own little world;and I feel like an intruder when I go over there...My sister has done EVERYTHING for her sons;and on the day something happens to her;they will ALL be like fish out of water...When I was there today;her husband went out side;came back and announced to my sister the propane tank was down to 10%...She said"$%^&!!I have to order THAT again??"while her husband and their son sat on the couch;watching some R-rated movie.It has been that way since the day they were married-She has carried the WHOLE load;doing everything for everybody in her house-As a result;her sons have NOT A CLUE as to how to survive on their own.AND:Her oldest is 36;the youngest is 30.When I visit;she makes it plain when I try to talk to her that I am interfering with their TV watching.That little talk I had with her yeaterday accomplished nothing;its back to the same old song and dance with her after one day.I have only one recourse-To leave it in the hands of the LORD;HE is the only one that can change it,andIm tired of tryin to talk to her;and just gettin swore at;and screamed at....