...her husband told her to get lost-again...
He has treated her like dog#$%^ever since they have been married-around 40 years--He recently got sick(cancer and heart troubles).....she has stood by and taken care of him-apparently,he got mad because me ,my wife,and my other 2 sisters took her out to lunch Saturday......then we went to see him in the hospital......Saturday afternoon;he told her,after the rest of us left,to get the h-e-double toothpicks out,and dont come back.......my sister left,and wandered around Wal-Mart for 3 hours before she called my other sister asking for help
...this man is a total self-centered butthole-AND,the Worst part-he has a terrible hair-trigger temper-and I picked it up from him-Please,pray for me also-that I lose this terrible thing I inherited from him-he was my only "role model"I had growing up-my father died when I was 11-and he taught me REAL WELL how to have a violent temper-throwing things,screaming,swearing,:sad:
for the most part,I have it under control-But;if I dont watch it,the littelest stupid thing can set it off...My other 2 sisters and I are rallying around her-I sent her an e-mail after I heard this -and told her:"HE MADE THE INVITATION-GO FOR IT,AND DONT LOOK BACK"-I also told her whatever she decided ,I was behind her 100%....she has put up with his shenanigans A LOT LONGER than any woman should have to put up with..Dont tell me what Scripture says about divorce....I know,and she knows...But,she is on the verge of a stroke or heart attack because of him...she closed out their joint savings account;PLEASE,PRAY FOR THE LORD TO GUIDE HER STEPS...Dogface Steve....
He has treated her like dog#$%^ever since they have been married-around 40 years--He recently got sick(cancer and heart troubles).....she has stood by and taken care of him-apparently,he got mad because me ,my wife,and my other 2 sisters took her out to lunch Saturday......then we went to see him in the hospital......Saturday afternoon;he told her,after the rest of us left,to get the h-e-double toothpicks out,and dont come back.......my sister left,and wandered around Wal-Mart for 3 hours before she called my other sister asking for help...this man is a total self-centered butthole-AND,the Worst part-he has a terrible hair-trigger temper-and I picked it up from him-Please,pray for me also-that I lose this terrible thing I inherited from him-he was my only "role model"I had growing up-my father died when I was 11-and he taught me REAL WELL how to have a violent temper-throwing things,screaming,swearing,:sad:for the most part,I have it under control-But;if I dont watch it,the littelest stupid thing can set it off...My other 2 sisters and I are rallying around her-I sent her an e-mail after I heard this -and told her:"HE MADE THE INVITATION-GO FOR IT,AND DONT LOOK BACK"-I also told her whatever she decided ,I was behind her 100%....she has put up with his shenanigans A LOT LONGER than any woman should have to put up with..Dont tell me what Scripture says about divorce....I know,and she knows...But,she is on the verge of a stroke or heart attack because of him...she closed out their joint savings account;PLEASE,PRAY FOR THE LORD TO GUIDE HER STEPS...Dogface Steve....
Yes,brothers and sisters....I believe the Lord had me observe my brother-in-law all those years as an example of what not to do.This man terrorized me with his terrible rages directed at me and everybody else-I always dreaded the times when there was work to be done;and my mother would make me help him....:sad:My mother NEVER stood up for me during his tirades;either-Now I know;she was probably scared of him,too!!...Well,a good many times over the years I found myself becoming the carbon-copy of this man....fits of rage,screaming,throwing things.....
:sad:He has done a good job of alienating everyone close to him---It used to be everybody had to walk around on eggshells around him-you never knew when he would erupt.Even recently;the whole family had an uneasy feeling regarding up-coming family get-togethers;;;would he be in a good mood,or not???Let me tell ya,I DO NOT want to be remembered as the man that had a disposition that would turn ugly at the drop of a hat-the way my oldest brother in law will be remembered....AND,LET ME ALSO SAY:The time will come when I will tell him EXACTLY the way I feel about the way he has treated my fsmily over the years-especially his wife;my oldest sister...AND,I will tell him -and I WILL NOT resort to losing my temper to do it-but he will know how little I think of his discarding my sister like so much garbage-she has said that is exactly how she feels-NOBODY has the right to do that to another human being-especially one that has done so much for another.I am e-mailing my sister tomorrow and tell her how much I love her...AMEN...