Yesterday,I was ready to hang my sisters'2 sons for taking advantage of her-WELL-Let me testify to you all,brothers and sisters-
I was in the same boat,courtesy of an ex wife,who took off to the West Coast and left me a BUNCH of bills...What did I do??I accepted the responsibility;dug in,and PAID EVERYTHING OFF!!!...Now,its all behind me by almost 20 yearsIt was a long hard road,but I made it...Now,there have been other people I have known before I met my wife that tried to take advantage of me financially;and I handled it very simply-I JUST SAID NO!!!-and away they went...The woman Im married to now loves me for ME,not whatever money I may or may not have...THAT IS MY SISTERS PROBLEM IN A NUTSHELL-SHE NEVER SAID NO TO THE PEOPLE IN HER LIFE THAT NEEDED IT MOST-HER OWN SONS!! My sister created 2 horrible financial Titanics-just by not saying no...My mother,Bless her soul-When she was alive,my sister would ask for her advbice on her kids-my mother would say'ITS SIMPLE-JUST SAY NO"-and she would tell her you are gonna hear all kinds of flack because of it,but dont back down,and dont change your mind-It ya do,you're done...Well,my sister's sons soon found out if they applied a little bit of pressure,she would give in EVERY TIME-This last time,to the tune of $82 grand that my sister borrowed against her own house,so her oldest son could get his own house;which he is in the process of losing right now,while he lives in another state and lives the good life.What am I gonna do??I WILL PRAY FOR ALL OF THEM;as their financial Titanic sails the ocean with icebergs dead ahead-Problem is,they dont have lookouts in the crow's nest-The final problem is,that didnt help the real titanic,either.
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I was in the same boat,courtesy of an ex wife,who took off to the West Coast and left me a BUNCH of bills...What did I do??I accepted the responsibility;dug in,and PAID EVERYTHING OFF!!!...Now,its all behind me by almost 20 yearsIt was a long hard road,but I made it...Now,there have been other people I have known before I met my wife that tried to take advantage of me financially;and I handled it very simply-I JUST SAID NO!!!-and away they went...The woman Im married to now loves me for ME,not whatever money I may or may not have...THAT IS MY SISTERS PROBLEM IN A NUTSHELL-SHE NEVER SAID NO TO THE PEOPLE IN HER LIFE THAT NEEDED IT MOST-HER OWN SONS!! My sister created 2 horrible financial Titanics-just by not saying no...My mother,Bless her soul-When she was alive,my sister would ask for her advbice on her kids-my mother would say'ITS SIMPLE-JUST SAY NO"-and she would tell her you are gonna hear all kinds of flack because of it,but dont back down,and dont change your mind-It ya do,you're done...Well,my sister's sons soon found out if they applied a little bit of pressure,she would give in EVERY TIME-This last time,to the tune of $82 grand that my sister borrowed against her own house,so her oldest son could get his own house;which he is in the process of losing right now,while he lives in another state and lives the good life.What am I gonna do??I WILL PRAY FOR ALL OF THEM;as their financial Titanic sails the ocean with icebergs dead ahead-Problem is,they dont have lookouts in the crow's nest-The final problem is,that didnt help the real titanic,either.
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