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Boomers dad here;and Dad is not doing too good.Got me a job thru an employment agency.They told me it was 8-10 hours,2nd day there,they said"mandatory12hr shifts".Have been doing that for a week now,the place is RELENTLESS on your job performance:"FASTER,WE NEED MORE PARTS".........Im staying down at my sisters in Waterford,so as to be closer to my job.WELL,brothers and sisters,my whole shootin match is coming apart at the seams:Couple weeks ago,you may recall after I had that MRI done,Dr said I had a hernia,and after further examination,he suspects I have a herniated disc,too.I was supposed to have that other MRI for my disc 2 weeks ago,but when that new job came thru,I canceled it,to go to work.NOW,after a week of working(72hours in that 1 week alone,)I can barely walk,move,etc;because of that hernia they say I got,and that suspected herniated disc.and the pain???In the past week,I have barely slept,or eaten cause the pain has been just about overwhelming.SO:TODAY,I decided ENOUGH IS ENOUGH-I called my Dr. back to get that MRI re-scheduled(2/28-a week from today);I called my employment recruiter that got me that job my situation;and how I NEED to get something done NOW(she understood),and then I called my wife and told her about whats going on-Whether she likes it or not;and whatever she decides to do whether to stay married to me or not;really doesnt matter any more.The pain is getting worse;the numbness in my right foot is starting to travel up my right leg.Dr. suspects that I have a herniated disc pressing against a branch of my sciatic nerve;and told me"If thats what it is,its VERY SERIOUS";and that the longer Ive had this numbness and pain in my right leg/foot area;even with surgery,it may not be possible to get the feeling back-AND I have had this for YEARS,just keeps getting worse-AND I BELIEVE the last 2 jobs Ive had recently have contributed to my present state .SO,THERE YA HAVE IT-Im going downhill with this back/leg thing;and it is IMPERATIVE I have this problem addressed,regardless of what my wife,in laws,or anybody else might think.Steve.........BY THE WAY:Can y'all possibly say some prayers for me???Thanks....................
 
Your marriage does matter to God, and all here who are praying for you bro. Hang in there, the prayers will continue!
 
Sorry to hear about all the pain and troubles with the job, wgsteve, but if I can say it straight to you in Jesus' caring love, you should not have taken it and stayed with your wife in trying to work out your marriage and taking the other MRI right away to find out how bad your health is and then I think your wife would have understood about your not working for quite a while or never! The marriage is more important than any job and since she is working and has ins for you, you do have income coming in and money available for tests and etc. You are hurting and angry and with a don't care attitude right now, it sure isn't helping your marriage....what you say to her and how you say it about your health and feelings is very important to keep harmony! Keep taking those anti-depressants as I know for myself that they do help keep a person on a more even keel in thinking and wiith better ability in doing what is needed done everyday! The Lord loves you and wants His best for you and His miracles are still for today, so I pray for miracle healings of your marriage and your body! If you get a divorce, you will lose your wife, her ins coverage and her help in some ways! May God give you more godly wisdom and help you in giving you hope in living now and forever in His Kingdom! Stay strong in faith, for faith moves mountains out of the way, and you do have some mountains to get through for now! Amen! :angel: Ma Betty
 
Just to set the record straight,I AM NOT taking anti-depressents-and THANK YOU for your professional opinion of my situation,your guidance shall be sent to the nearest file for deletion......................
 
Well, so sorry you feel that way, I was just trying to help and you certainly don't have to listen to me and I thought from your other posts that you were taking anti-depressants! God is with me and He has broad shoulders, to take any unpleantness to what replies to my posts say, so listen to Jesus and let Him help you and don't listen to me who is far older, wiser and has been through many trials and has come along way with Jesus' help and caring love! Just want the best for you, your wife and marriage! May He move in your lives and perform miracles by healing your thoughts and your marriage! Amen! :angel: Ma Betty
 
guess that is why the plant up here didn't hire me...they wanted quantity of parts and probably figured I could not keep up with the 'kids' they hire.

Praying God works on those pains (physical in your body and those who don't know the pain you are going through). May God heal you and set the other 'pains' straight.
 
Im sorry for the attatude,Betty.I DO care about my marriage,and everything else,but having this burden of constant physical pain(I cant even sleep thru the night now,even with powerful pain pills);and with some folks(none on here)thinking Im dramatizing this situation when Im not is very stressful.You do have a lot of insight and wisdom-I am just in a bad place right now.Steve...................
 
and it isn't easy! I've been there and know what divorce is like and how dificult it is to stay joyous and in the will of our Lord when a person is physically and emotionally unable to work, which I know you want to do...but I don't believe your body can take physical labor any more than mine could, so I only wish the best for you! Keep your eyes upon Jesus and He will lead you to where He wants you and He hates divorce, but sometimes it happens any way...just like mine did, but God has blessed me mightily and I have grown more faithful and in His joy He gives me strength to continue on until He takes me Home to be with Him forever more! My prayers are for love, peace and comfort with each other and everything to work out for you both in the love and peace of Jesus! May God Bless! Amen! :angel: Ma Betty
 
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