That depends on a few things. I use a Swingy Thingy. The detector weight is suspended from my chest and I just guide the coil where I want it to go with my swinging arm so the additional weight is a non issue. I mounted the probe as far up the shaft, not the back of the arm rest area like most do as I can without getting in the way of the switch and wires that come with the X-1. When I kneel down on the ground, the probe is right next to me and the hole I am digging and I can reach back and change the push buttons on the ET. The X-1 was the first accessory that I got and that was from the advice of others on this forum. I also got the Sunray 8" coil. That was because I started with the SE with the stock coil and until I got those two things, I was getting really frustrated. There's is a relatively new probe on the scene, the pistol probe, and even though you don't have it operating through the machine electronics like the X-1, it is getting great reviews. You don't have to purchase an extra upper shaft either. If it was me, now I think I'd get the pistol probe as it works good and I could use it with any other detectors I have or might borrow. The X-1 stays with the shaft and if you change machine manufacturers, you have to get an X-1 specific to that manufacturer's machine. Neat to see you wife supporting your hobby. She will benefit down the road when she sees your first ring and puts it on her finger never to come off. Regards...Jim