OK, I just checked my thread. Pins 1 and 2 are the output power leads to the TX winding. Your 2.8 and 3.3 ohm readings are very close to each other, and for me in that thread both my 10" Tornado and 12x10 read 1.9 ohms. I suspect your meter is reading a little high only due to variances of the meter, because reading ohms this low is rather hard for a cheap meter to do real accurately.
These leads also supply power to the pre-amp, so that probably explains your fluctuating numbers at first as the pre-amp is slightly energized, and could also explain the slight variances you got in readings from both coils because the components on both pre-amps are going to vary a little no matter how good of parts they are in tolerance specifications.
I'm about headed for bed and too tired to think real straight at the moment, but I'd say you are golden. Those readings are so close I bet it's the right coil, but just to be cautious read pins 4 and 3. 4 is the RX coil output and ground is pin 3. I got 1.218K ohms for my 12x10 and 1.119K ohns for the 10" Tornado. You may have to adjust your scale on your meter for this as I don't know what scaling your are set on.
Really the RX coil reading isn't of the RX coil, but rather a general reading of the resistance of the entire circuit on that end because of the pre-amp and other components involved in that the RX coil alone can't be isolated unless you cut into the coil.
I'd say if you get a resistance reading of around those two numbers for the RX coil you should be good to go, but as always don't take my word for it and I'm not responsible if you let the magic smoke out of your machine.

I'm too tired to look up other variances in numbers from a site that others have posted this info on when building Sovereign coils and I'm too tired to read the pins on my S-5 to see how much it may vary from my other two coils I posted. If you wait until tomorrow I'll read my S-5 and see if it varies from my other two coils by the TX readings as much as yours does, but it's so slight in your readings that if your RX reads close to the two I just posted for those pins then I'd say your golden. I just always like to be extra cautious when I don't know for sure without some further checking but your TX windings are super close to both your coils to each other, and as said they are reading a bit higher than mine due to the accuracy of your cheap meter.
If I knew off hand how far say the TX windings read different on an FBS coil then if that's way off then we can rule that out as being that coil. With the RX reading if that's close to mine then I'd say you've got a BBS coil there.
Got to get off this thing and go to bed. I'll check back and post that info tomorrow...