.....I would like to explain something to all of you:I addressed a problem that has been brewing in my family,for YEARS,and I did it,NOT by returning insult for insult,but by relating the TRUTH: we can NOT go through life,shooting our mouths off,with a "take-no-prisoners"attitude,as to how we hurt each other.When a person's totally innocent gesture is viewed with suspicion,-When the person offering such gesture,has NEVER,NOT ONCE,done a thing to warrant such suspicion-It is time for a Christian"heart to heart"with all involved,and that is JUST WHAT I DID;knowing all the while,I would be reviled because of it.DID JESUS not tell the truth;knowing He would get static for it? OK:I am NOT comparing myself with JESUS,but:Sometimes,the truth hurts,and none of you,have had to deal with my sister personally,and walk on egg-shells around her;for fear she would start her screaming/bad mouthing tirade..................I WILL NOT be ashamed in telling the truth in a Christian way,and I WILL NOT apologize for addressing a problem,that we have all been afraid to get into for YEARS,because someone can't handle their mouth............Steve.