..I met my 3 sisters at the cemetary last Friday-after working all night,and 3 hours sleep...By the time I got back home;I was physically sick from exhaustion...We had plans to meet at a restaurant tonite(Wednesday) about 4-5 miles from my workplace-NOW:I gets an E-mail from my one sister-Seems my oldest sister's hip is causing her fits(has to have it replaced this november);so now they want us to drive down to her house 60-70 miles each way--My sister gets outta work at 5-Go out and have dinner together;(my oldest sister and her husband are leaving Friday morning to go back to New Mexico);and leave them,and go to work,and work all night...My wife gets up at 4AM;goes to bed at 8PM.I sent her an e-mail and explained my job is very physically demanding,and cant do it well without proper rest,and wont be able to make it.(Interesting,I think-she is riding 1,500 miles back to New Mexico;but cant ride the 60-70 miles each way so have dinner with me and the wife)...I also explained to my sister in the e-mail after the trip to the cemetary and lunch Friday after working Friday;I was physically sick...I KNOW my sister hurts a lot,and riding hurts-but,I need some consideration,too-NOW,because of last-minute changing of plans-it happens a LOT with us-my wife cant see my oldest sister before they go back home...Im trying to be christian about the whole thing;but to have them just change plans,and say"THIS IS HOW ITS GONNA BE-WHAT TIME WILL YOU BE HERE?"state of mind is getting old-REAL fast....
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I THOUGHT all was right with my sisters and me....
- Thread starter warthog
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W.G. You have explained the situation about your work and health, so leave it go and put it in God's hands! They should have some understanding about your conditions since one sister has hip problems and knows what feeling ill and pain is, so don't fret and let God take care of it from here. Just say you are sorry about not being able to meet what they want, but that is the way it is and that you love them and sure would like to see them again when it is convenient for them, you and your wife! That's all you need to say and then let God take control and ask Jesus to give them understanding and godly wisdom and He will work it all out for each of you! 
God Bless!
Betty
God Bless!
Betty
When you have peace you will know! 