There now, now we all understand each other a little better, eh?. I was hoping we could get to that
Mike has a great point in his post below. Something I had forgotten all about is the MD Code of Ethics (I've been doing this so long, I haven't looked at it in a while). Looking over your shoulder is no way indeed to enjoy what you are doing. If you have to resort to that, just keep in mind that this is a hobby.
I know a lot of detectorists, and they have a lot of excellent finds. But guess what? None of them have funded their "luxurious lifestyles" with the treasures they've found, even the very successful ones.
I personally have found that detecting with others around is little worry, except at a VERY crowded beach. No one really cares about you all that much - that is until they think you are after something they're missing out on! In fact I have had curious onlookers approach me to ask a few questions and a good detecting comes of it.
I fell that you need'nt worry. The average person is polite enough and doesn't want to bother you. Or, better yet, they think for the most part that you are simply "eccentric" ( a crakpot). That's fine with me. I aint sneakin' and they leave me alone for the most part.
I don't know how many countless parents have coming rushing over near me to shout at their child, "C'mere baby! Get away from that guy!" I'm fairly sure they weren't simply worried about my privacy.
I want to thank Mike for his advice and ALL of us could review the Code Of Ethics again. SO - Thanks, Mike - and here it is:
Metal Detectorists Code of Ethics
1. Respect the rights and property of others.
2. Observe all laws, whether national, state or local. Aid law enforcement officials whenever possible.
3. Never destroy priceless, historical or archeological treasures.
4. Leave the land and vegetation as it was. Fill in all holes.
5. Remove all trash and litter when you leave.
6. ALL metal detectorists may be judged by the example YOU set. Always conduct yourself with courtesy and consideration for others.