They advocate turning your back on your own family members,if they do not listen to you..if somebody commits a mistake,they are 'put on notice' in front of the whole congregation,and most times these people are talked about behind their backs by everyone there,under the heading of 'loving concern'.....In one congregation I attended,they favored the well to do and practically ignored those that had very little money,such as me.......They advocate at ANY gathering you 'separate yourselves' from everyody else not a Witness,making everybody think they think they are better than them,.....The more hours you have in field service,the higher on the totem pole you were there,and NO excuse was good enough if you did make even the average amount of hours,in field service.......A good number of them looked down their noses at any others that were NOT WITNESSES,BECAUSE 'Jehovah's Witnesses are the ONLY ONES that have the REAL TRUTH,AND THE ONLY ONES THAT WILL BE SELECTED OF THE 144,000 'anointed ones' that will make it to Heaven,the rest of the witnesses remaining on Paradise Earth for 1,000 years.The devil is let loose for a short time after the 1,000 years,allowed to mislead folks again on earth,then sometime after that,the devil is destroyed permanently,along with all his earthly followers....I have a LOT of not so nice memories of that period in my life....EVERYTHING,IN MY LIFE I DID AT THAT TIME,TURNED OUT DISASTROUS....Only after I left them,my life finally got on track.....it did not take me long to see that the LORD was calling me out of that 'headed down a dead ean road' group,and since I have stayed FAR,FAR away from them,it is plain I am now on the right road.....