...I got an e-mail from my youngest sister regarding my other sisters'son;whom they think has diabetes.I swent her an e-mail back;telling her how its news to me-I have been kept in the dark for years of anything having to do with my family.This has been a problem for a LONG TIME (15 years);so I called my other sister whose son is sick and I told her I was concerned for my nephew;AND-I figured I would bring up being forgotten when something happens in the family at this time-
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...By the end of the conversation;my sister was screaming and swearing at the top of her lungs at me over the phone about her work load;how hard it is for her;etc;etc.....
What did I do??I told her"I WILL NOT engage in this kind of a conversation with you or anybody else!!"- and I hung up on her....I feel my request was minor;and I didnt do this to split up the family;but to unite us.Un-fortunately;I knew how my sister would react;but I have held this inside me for TOO long;and I figured I had to clear the air-I took the high road;though-I didnt raise my voice;didnt scream and swear at the top of my lungs back at her(Ive come a LONG WAY;BABY!!);and I sent a e-mail to my oher sister informingher what happened-and that Im tryong to UNITE this family;not tear it down.NOW;all 3 of my sisters will probably shun me-THE TRUTH HURTS;I guess....
What did I do??I told her"I WILL NOT engage in this kind of a conversation with you or anybody else!!"- and I hung up on her....I feel my request was minor;and I didnt do this to split up the family;but to unite us.Un-fortunately;I knew how my sister would react;but I have held this inside me for TOO long;and I figured I had to clear the air-I took the high road;though-I didnt raise my voice;didnt scream and swear at the top of my lungs back at her(Ive come a LONG WAY;BABY!!);and I sent a e-mail to my oher sister informingher what happened-and that Im tryong to UNITE this family;not tear it down.NOW;all 3 of my sisters will probably shun me-THE TRUTH HURTS;I guess....