I'm late to this thread and it's good to see FT treated you right. Looking at your coil pics, to my eye, it looks like they've been over-tightened and the coil was moved often without first loosening the bolt. The compression and friction actually wore a ring into the tabs and the bolt forced the tabs into a conical shape, further reducing the contact area. Of course they'd just become loose again as the thrust-bearing surface wore away, requiring further tightening. Rinse and repeat. Finally, the tabs were forced inwards enough compensating for the wear that they separated.
Maybe you have a habit of flipping the coil up or down to check targets with the heel or tip or for transport/storage. If so, keep the bolt's tension to where it holds position yet still moves easily, or loosen the bolt before making large swings of the coil's position.
I thrash my coils and frequently reposition them by pressing them against the ground or with my foot and haven't lost a tab yet. But, I've seen the same type of wear on our pivoted-arm shop lamps that are moved around a lot with very tight fasteners to hold them in position.
-Ed