theend of the road for me........................

[warthog]

the wife got home today,asked YOU STILLGOT THAT JOB???I told her You know I HAVE to have an MRI done on my back this Monday,the numbness is moving up my leg from my foot,and the pain in my back makes it almost impossible to walk,much less work...............SO:She looked me and said "ok,thats it-pack your stuff and get out".................... Ive been diagnosed recently as having a hernia,also.........The added bonus to all this is when she said "tomorrow,you are officially off my health insurance,too".............SO:I have no home,and no health insurance to get treatment for this hernia I got;or the MRI for this possible herniated disc,that the
Dr.thinks is pressing on my sciatic nerve,and could eventually cripple me.I am posting this on my nephew's computer,I dont know when-or IF-I will be around much longer,cause I cant afford my long-term prescriptions,now that my wife has turned her back on me. Im going to consult an attorney,hate to say it;but its time to start thinking about me.Its a sobering feeling,being there for my wife and her family for so many years- and now that IM the one needing help,Im the one cast aside...................... pray for me,please..........................PS:This is NOT a joke,this is really happening to me.Steve...................

 

[Mike from MI "Iron Brigade"]

I will pray now and many times tonight and they will continue. May God speak to her heart and that things will turn around for your marriage, your health, and all your other needs. This is not the end. The Lord has a plan for you and it is a good plan.
God bless you my friend.

 

[Anonymous]

Hang in there wgSteve, you worked for years and helped pay off the mortage on the home and your name can't be taken off the title, until you go through divorce court and then you will most likely have to sell the home and split the proceeds. She cannot leave you alone without a home and you can stay there as long as you want and tell her to leave if she wants a divorce, as she has the job and can go to her parents! This is what I told my ex when he wanted me to leave, but I got some sense after spending a week with my sister and talking to her and finally I said, Why should I leave, it is my home, too, and if he wants to leave he can go....and he did per his lawyers saying so!

You may not have ins because she can take you off her work ins coverage, but she can't keep you without money and a home, as you have proof that you are ill and a dr and lawyer will see to your getting your fair share! Things look very bad for you now, because of your being ill and making you feel helpless (I was there) but whether a husband or wife...they are responsible too for the years lived together! Since she works and you don't, if you do get a divorce, she will most likely be the one to pay for it, unless she can prove cruelty which I hope isn't true and she can't say you wouldn't work becauses you were laid off and now your ill after not being able to find work with the economy like it is! Pray and stick to your guns, steve, and don't let her do you that way! She sounds just like my ex, just thinking about the income you could bring in, and he said if I didn't work then he wasn't going to support me, but he got fooled when he thought he would leave me high and dry! I had a good lawyer and he paid for most of the fees including court costs! God is good to His own and you are a Child of God, so hold your head high, pray and keep thanking Jesus, for He is going to take care of you, for He has me for many, many years! God Bless you and I will pray that God will move her heart with love and caring for you and for Jesus to give you strength to go through and the power to overcome! God won't fail you, so keep the faith and trusting in Jesus, for He careth for you very much! Amen! Ma Betty

 

[dirtdigginlady]

Just something for you to check into.... Where I worked last and still have benefits you could only change who was covered on your insurance once a year. Ours was in Oct and it c ould NOT be changed any other time so you may want to look into that.

 

[RickIowa2009]

Prayer, serious prayer!

 

[Mike Chgo area]

n/t

 

[Anonymous]

And Theresa, if she is able to take Steve off her company ins, it will look really bad for her before the Court Judge, as it would show she doesn't love him nor wants to help take care of him in his illness! If a husband works and takes care of his spouse and/or family, I think it would go the same for the spouse who is working and supporting the spouse and/or family and she would be ordered to keep him on her ins and help support him! Here in MO the law goes both ways and for the care of the children, too! Keep the faith, Steve, the best is yet to come! May God Bless! Amen! Ma Betty

 

[SEMPERFI61]

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[seeker41]

sorry steve, praying for you!!!!!!!

 

[Digdoug]

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[Leslie(nova scotia)]

From the land of the Bluenose......things happen and often the reason escapes us. The Lord will do his work......just keep the faith!