Ma Betty in MO
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Tami had called me and was really depressed, hurting and upset, for Troy had really came down hard on her about the cleaning of the house, which is difficult to do, when she works all day cleaning rooms and doing laundry where she works with many rooms to do in a certain period of time! He had understood this but being depressed and stressed over the accident to the Contour, which she drives most of the time, he went out and got drunk, although he doesn't drink and hasn't for quite some time...just an occasional beer...and then wrecked the Bronco from driving drunk! He was going to be taken to jail, but his head was cut and bleeding, so he was taken to ER where he was given a CT Scan and 2 stitches for his head wound! Well, since I hadn't been feeling well, this stressed me and I became very concerned for Tami and prayed for her and wanted others to pray also! She suffers from depression and Fibromyalgia and then says, she wished she was never born...to which I reply, I love you, would not abort you and God wants you alive and well for serving Him!
She has been driving the old truck, that Troy uses for hauling and etc., and has been working...after calling her twice and leaving a message, she got worried about me, although she was at work doing the laundry, she called me and I just said I was calling to find out how things were going and was very concerned about her! She said, she had gone to church that morning and this was Sunday night...so going to church and then to work was really good to hear, for I knew she was doing better! She had gone the Thursday before, to the church where the women, who have lost children meet and she helps them by leading and helping each other to endure and overcome their loss! She is supposed to go back this coming Thurs and it is really helping her to be involved in God's work! She sounded so much better!
Troy will be getting tickets in the mail and will have to go to court for drunk driving and the judge will probably take his license away and may put him in jail for awhile, which Tami says will be good for him, as he needs to learn a lesson for driving drunk and having 2 vehicles wrecked within two days! The first one by ice completely totaling the Contour...the second his fault and may have totaled the Bronco, depending on whether the frame is bent! Their financial situation isn't great and this won't help, but hopefully, he will have learned his lesson and keep his mind off a divorce for Tami doesn't want another divorce...had one already...and is trying her best to keep their marriage going! Troy and his brother both have a lot of terrible childhood memories they need to be counseled for to overcome for none was their fault as young boys! Thank you for reading, understanding and praying! No one knows but God what others have been through which causes them to be like they are in adulthood!
Ma
She has been driving the old truck, that Troy uses for hauling and etc., and has been working...after calling her twice and leaving a message, she got worried about me, although she was at work doing the laundry, she called me and I just said I was calling to find out how things were going and was very concerned about her! She said, she had gone to church that morning and this was Sunday night...so going to church and then to work was really good to hear, for I knew she was doing better! She had gone the Thursday before, to the church where the women, who have lost children meet and she helps them by leading and helping each other to endure and overcome their loss! She is supposed to go back this coming Thurs and it is really helping her to be involved in God's work! She sounded so much better!
Troy will be getting tickets in the mail and will have to go to court for drunk driving and the judge will probably take his license away and may put him in jail for awhile, which Tami says will be good for him, as he needs to learn a lesson for driving drunk and having 2 vehicles wrecked within two days! The first one by ice completely totaling the Contour...the second his fault and may have totaled the Bronco, depending on whether the frame is bent! Their financial situation isn't great and this won't help, but hopefully, he will have learned his lesson and keep his mind off a divorce for Tami doesn't want another divorce...had one already...and is trying her best to keep their marriage going! Troy and his brother both have a lot of terrible childhood memories they need to be counseled for to overcome for none was their fault as young boys! Thank you for reading, understanding and praying! No one knows but God what others have been through which causes them to be like they are in adulthood!
Ma
