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Have To Vent A Little....

TreasureDigger

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I am really ticked off right now and since this isn't something that should be aired on Facebook and to keep from spreading it around the work place, I'm coming here to vent.

Part of of my job is to be the Case Manager for Drug Court which means I am in charge of every person who goes through Drug Court and I handle all of their cases. The other part of my job is as the Case Manager/Probation Officer for Community Corrections (who controls Drug Court) and I handle Prison Diversion cases, supervisions, etc. - that's a heck of a lot different career than the teaching I used to do, but I love it! :) Anyway, for Drug Court there is what is called the Drug Court Team, and on this team are two people from the substance abuse/recovery/counseling facility, the District Attorney, Defense Attorney, County Criminal Clerk, the Director of Community Corrections, Secretary, myself, and the Drug Court Judge. All Christians except for our Jewish friend the Defense Attorney.

We have recently been having some undercurrent trouble between the two ladies from the substance abuse place that is beginning to upset the cart as far as the whole team is concerned, but is directly affecting ME since I have to handle everything. Friday after court the Judge came to me asking questions about if I knew what was going on because he could tell things weren't right. I was reluctant to tell him anything at all because I have NEVER been one to talk about people I work with behind their backs and usually go the extra mile to keep the peace. Well, Judge kept pushing me to tell him what I knew and thinking he was a Godly man and a man of his word I finally gave in and told him what the problem was. I asked him, before I told him, to promise me that it would remain between the two of us. Well, guess what! It didn't. He went straight to the woman who is causing the problems and told her everything I said. Of course she denied the whole thing which makes ME look like the trouble maker when in reality I have nothing to do with what's been going on.

I'm NOT a happy camper right now. :veryangry: :rant: :ranting: :rage:
 
salvation with godly wisdom for those who don't know Jesus as their own, personal Savior! Keep your chin up and know this will all clear up until another problem appears for satan is constantly on the prowl to disturb a Christian's faith and hurt us...but don't let him by quickly quoting God's Word to him....Praying for peace in the valleys with God's peaceful and conforting love in Jesus' name! Amen! :angel: Ma Betty
 
I know he's a judge but someone should call him to account for his actions. If the agreement was that it was confidential he is neither honest nor a gentleman. I'd be mighty tempted to have another conversation with the Judge about it. I'll be praying for you!
 
Let go and let God.
It will all be OK, and I know God will make good of it. Praying for you here.
 
Back in the day I would have been all over that Judge for breaking your trust. If I were you I would let it go and hopefully this lady will take a good long look at how she has been acting.
 
In some situations you are more important than any others. Learn from this deal and be better off in the future. steve in so az
 
Vent away anytime, Lisa. We all need somewhere we can go and let off steam. I really don't see where you ask for advice and knowing you, you've already given it to GOD and are letting him lead. I've been in the same situation as you and it is rough. You have two choices...to let go and pray that things get back to normal quickly or you can voice your concerns in an appropriate way. You obviously deserve an appology from the judge, but it's doubtful that will happen unless GOD really gets ahold of him. Matthew 18:15 gives us good advice ;) It's easy to forgive, but hard to forget when you work with ppl day in and day out. It's hard for some ppl to understand how difficult such situations can be when they aren't from a small area. Everyone knows each other, tend to be fairly close, work in close proximity, etc. You know what I mean.
 
That sucks Lisa, your a good person and not a trouble maker, I hate that happened to you, so you know who to trust and who not to!
 
Thanks for the encouragement, Ma!

Lisa
 
I agree with you! I no longer have any trust or respect for him... whatsoever.

Lisa
 
Thanks Mike!

Lisa
 
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Well, I really feel that I don't have much of a choice but to let it go. I don't know about her. She has a lot of self esteem issues, jealousy, etc., and that's where all of this trouble is coming from. Of course she lied her way out of it and turned it around on others, just as she usually does.

Lisa
 
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Thanks Liz. I am ALWAYS open to advice! The Word tells us to seek Godly counsel! Right now I'm just so aggravated! Grrrrrrrr.......

Lisa
 
Right! I no longer trust him, that's for sure! Thanks Hank!

Lisa
 
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