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The WEDGE....

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Lets go way back in time to a time when I was a small boy. To the best of my knowledge, the year was 1965 and I was 9 yrs old. My best friend in them days was my Father, who took me hunting and fishing at every opportunity.
In between fishing and hunting trips, my dad and his gang always hung out at one of three places. The Triangle Cafe,(Home of best bar-b-que that I have EVER tasted), Clydes Drive In,(Home of the 19 cent hamburger), or my daddys garage,(Home of some of the best hand-crafted wood creations that I have ever seen).
Usually it was Vernon Rothenberger, Vernon Brown, Tommy Thomas, Lloyd Suggs, Bob Crossley and Daddy that ran in circles together. This particular story is about a deer hunt involving Daddy, Lloyd, and my little ol tag-along self.
This day brought us to a cut-over off of Hwy 35 on Baxter Trail, a little gravel road that was close to a game refuge at the time. The woods were filled with big deer. On this morning, we turned the dogs loose and it wasnt long before Bandit jumped. He ran as fast as his little beagle legs would let him, bawling the whole way.
Now I cant remember what brought us to get in the truck,(probably because Bandit would run into the next county if the deer wasnt killed or he wasnt caught.) We came to the top of a hill in the middle of a cut-over when Daddy pulled over to listen for the dogs. We all got out and got ready. I wasnt carrying a gun that day; Iwas just there for the Hostess cupcakes and Frostie rootbeer, (lol)
We heard the dogs coming a mile away when Daddy took a rest on the hood of the old GMC, while Lloyd took a rest on the bed. What a race! Bandit was a mouthy lil beagle and had come a long way from being MY pet. (I chose Bandit first from a litter we had and had spoiled him just a little). 250 yards away not one, but two monster bucks emerged from the hardwoods into the cut-over. Bandit and his buddies kept just enough pressure on them so they really didnt have alot of time to make any major decisions. The dogs were catching up quick before hitting the cut-over and now both bucks were in high gear running side by side with the morning sun gleaming off their enormous racks. It was a sight that I can still picture clearly almost 40 yrs later.
The deer got to around 125 yards away when both men fired their rifles. Daddy always shot a Remington 243 while I forget what Lloyd shot. Both deer met their death that morning near Baxter Trail, but more importantly, both men had a wedge driven between them that morning because of one thing. The G-word. Greed.
As I still recall, Lloyd told Daddy, "Gene, you can have the meat; I just want the RACKS." Lloyd Suggs thought he killed both deer. No compromise was ever made. In his mind, he did kill both deer. In my Daddys mind,(and in the real world), he killed at least one of the bucks.
Yes, my Daddy was a hunter and a fisherman, but he was not a liar or a thief. What my Daddy WAS though, was a wonderful shot. I saw it happen too many times. He was a great shot. Daddy also had something called his pride that sometimes got in his way. He wouldnt take either deer----He let Lloyd have both of them---meat and racks.
As far as I know neither man ever talked with the other one ever again. They both had let a little thing like a November deer hunt put a wedge between their friendship. As I look back now, I realize it wasnt worth it; if Lloyd Suggs is still alive, maybe he realizes it too. I sure miss Mr Suggs and all the funny stories he used to tell. Maybe I should try to look him up.
Thanks for listening.
God Bless,
Lil Brother <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)"> <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
Tom i have to disagree,
I would have given that insensitive clod both Deer and never talked to him again, just like your Daddy did!
That does not change the fact that its interesting to hear about your Beagle dog trailing Deer <img src="/metal/html/grin.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":grin">
Thanks Tom
Wayne
 
That something so trivial cost a friendship.I have hunted (usually only once) with guys who seemed to be so greedy that they would do nearly anything to have "bragging" rights.I never could understand it.
 
...great story,I was wondering if you loose any dogs while hunting,do they always come back.
Cheers ojm bc <img src="/metal/html/glasses.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":geek:">
 
But knowing me and my personality, I would probably have done a Wayne and called it a cheap lesson.
I remember that I had a friend ask me to paint his car for him. "Well", says I, "Sure but I will not do a haff-assed job. I gotta cut out all the rust, weld new panels in, prime, mask, etc. Then I will paint"
He said okay so I put in around a week solid of painstaking work to get this car back to new. The friend comes up, looks at the job, says thank you very much, and disappears. I have not seen him to this day.
I was mad at the time but I did not dwell on it for too long. He has to live with himself and me,,,,well I just considered it a fairly inexpensive lesson in life.
As I have always said, if someone does this to me, fine!!! But they will NEVER get another job from me. They can offer me $1000.00 for a $100.00 job....but I will not do it.
All the best
M
 
I was not there, nor did I remember some of the crystal-clear details about that. I DO remember the ever-lasting wedge though. Too bad. I just always figured they'd work it out one day.
Then Daddy died. A man has to make preparations to go beforehand, because he never knows when his time will come....when his last deer hunt will occur.
Hmmmm. Tom, I really believe that you should do all you can to locate Lloyd Suggs. If he is alive, I'm just sure he'd be delighted to see you.
Besides; take a pen and pencil and jot down some of his adventure-packed, funny stories.
Loved the story...it's what this forum is all about.<><
Johnboy
 
I feel that it is his place to fess up. There is no friendship without trust. I feel that the burden was on Lloyd to make this "right" with your father.
Greed is the root of much evil, causes much problems in life. Just my take on this story, sad that this had to happen to your father! Please have a great day! Kelley (Texas) <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
might have done your father a favor. A favor that probably saved him more than it ever cost him.
This was the REAL Mr Suggs, in my view. He was obviously showing a different Mr Suggs before that deer hunt but the real one finally showed himself. It only cost you father a deer but it could have cost more.
I have had people do me wrong and I usually just chalk it up to experience and write them off. I don't really know if I forgive but I don't forget easily.
Mr Suggs was not the man I want for a friend. I would never screw a friend but have had friends screw me on a couple occasions over the years. They never got the chance again.
There are too many good people out there to let a person finally showing themselves bother me.
Interesting and thought provoking post.
Thanks
 
was a cabinet maker. I am an electrician.
He was building a house and asked me to wire it for him. I was working 12 hours a day, seven days a week but told him I would do it. For free, all he had to do is pay for the material, at my cost.
I wired that monster of a house and his big garage. He kept telling me that if I ever needed any cabinets made that he would do them for me as payment. I had no intention of building a house and told him not to worry about it, it was not necessary.
Well I wired the house. A year later I decided to build a house and went to him. He said sure, he would build them but I would still owe him because his cabinets were worth a lot more than the wiring job.
I said OK and we dove into building the cabinets. It took a few days to get them done and since he got behind on his jobs, I took time off work and helped him build and install cabinets for three customers. It cost me a weeks work. That was fine as I agreed to it.
Louie always called on me when ever he had some wiring to do on a kitchen he was remodeling. I never charged him a dime, never. He lived 30 miles from me but I would always make the trip and help him out. He never offered a dime and I was not about to ask. We grew up together.
He said many times that I was the only guy he ever dealt with that never screwed him. Many times. I would hear him complain about the cement man, the rough carpenter, the well driller, the plumber, etc. He would always be putting them down and accusing them of screwing him. I told my wife that if he ever accused me of screwing him I would just walk away and never see him again.
I got a call from Louie a couple years later. He said, "Man, you owe me. I am building another house and need it wired!" I would have done it for him even if I didn't "OWE" him.
I went over and looked at the prints and it was a 2500 sq ft house and behind it he was building a 1500 sq ft cement block work shop. Man that was all gonna be in conduit and the dang fool was building the thing in the middle of the winter. By golly this ought to get me caught up!!
He got the place roughed in and called me. He had a generator and said it had to be wired right away. I told him he was nuts, there was a blizzard but he kept whining so I went.
I would drill the holes and it was so cold that the insulation on the romex would crack right off as I tried to pull it. He was complaining that I had not snapped a chalk line on the floor joist, in the basement before I drilled my holes for the wire so the wires would all line up. I told him to kiss my ass and went home for the day.
I finally finished the house and garage. Now that is two big houses and a big workshop. About a dozen kitchens remodeling jobs, a week off work to help him get caught up with his work. Man I ought to be caught up now.
I gave him a bill for the material, at my cost and he said I was screwing him out of 65 bucks. I just looked at him and told him to never call my house again and walked off.
That was about 25 years ago and Louie was one of my earliest friends. His old man ran a sawmill in town and my mother used to tell him to go home and have his mother change his crappy diapers. We went back.
I will never forget. I don't hate him or anything but I never want a person like him for a friend....
 
Me??? Friendships are much more important to me. <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
All the best
M
 
I couldnt live with myself if I was like that. Friendship is a lot more important than money.
To some people, the more you give, the more they take. <img src="/metal/html/shrug.gif" border=0 width=37 height=15 alt=":shrug">
Lil Brother <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)"> <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
caught up in a thing like a deer hunt, but never put as much effort in to a friendship. <img src="/metal/html/confused.gif" border=0 width=15 height=22 alt=":?">
 
Daddy back in them days. I figure Daddy was 53at the time and Lloyd----maybe 40-45. He must be pushing 80 if hes still alive.
Last I heard, he lived in Bryant, Ar.
LATE BREAKING NEWS--I looked in the phone book and there his name was living in
Collegeville.........HMMMMMMMMM ....I sure would like to see those horns!
Lil Brother
 
would have done it if the cabinets were not even involved but when he said I was screwing him, that did it.
The story of Louie since then is rather sad though. He is a bumb now, in his mid 60's and bumbing around the country looking for handouts.
He called me a few years ago and was looking for one. He didn't get it..
 
once, but you don't get a second chance! I still think being a nice person is better, and I refuse to give in an be like the others, but sometimes it makes me wonder what a bad judge of character I have become. Still, I believe in giving anyone a chance, but mess with me and they might be sorry, but mess with my family and they are definetly so! <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
daddy always had a host of friends, and many of them were much younger. I think daddy tried to take them in if they had no male figure in their life, like Ronald Kelley. Remember him??? Daddy was good to people, and he was very well liked, but if you made him mad, he didn't forget! <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
I've had my share! Happened to me last week! I just stay amazed at the users in the world! They take advantage of our good nature, and they know they can, once that is! <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
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